Taylor Frankie Paul DV & Listener Questions
EP: 131
It's a Hollywood Hot Take Takeover today with the recent news of local (to us) influencer Taylor Frankie Paul being arrested on Domestic Violence charges. Tiffany and Kierstyn dive head first into this topic, covering what this type of abuse looks like, why it’s not only women who are victims, men can be too, why it's hard to get out, trauma bonds, and addictions.
While it’s easy to get sucked into Instagram and Tik Tok drama we wanted to use this real life example to talk about domestic violence and more importantly make sure we offer resources for where you can find help if you or someone who know is in this type of situation.
You can find help and resources at FADV.org and https://www.thehotline.org
We also answer a few listener questions we've had come in recently like why is it so hard to leave an abusive relationship, how to deal with the pain of a cheating spouse, and how to work someone with an avoidant attachment style.
LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Free Download: Boundaries PDF https://www.therelationshiprecovery.com/ep129
The Breakup Book of Affirmations - https://www.therelationshiprecovery.com/product-page/the-breakup-book-of-affirmations
Should I Stay or Should I go - https://www.therelationshiprecovery.com/stayorgo
Other helpful episodes and links:
How to Break a Trauma Bond:
https://www.therelationshiprecovery.com/ep124
The Different Attachment Styles
https://pod.link/1606974947/episode/49a0a9179aade8717064788828a4d32d
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Should I stay in this relationship, choose to recommit, and figure
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Our
Listeners
Favorite
Moments:
4:23-5:27 - it’s important to talk about that DV isn’t always a man abusing a woman…it can happen in any relationship dynamic
8:12-9:32 - importance of reporting DV, Tiff’s personal story, Gabby Petito
13:53-14:54-why it’s so hard to leave a relationship with an abusive ex, explanation of trauma bond/cycle of abuse
16:01-17:57 - tips for dealing with a partner that has an avoidant attachment style, recognizing what your attachment style is so you can do the work to get to a secure place
21:55-23:22 - important to do work (either together with the partner if you stayed, or on your own) to work through the betrayal trauma so it doesn’t continue to show up in your relationships
Links Mentioned in Episode:
Episode Tools & Resources:
The Breakup Book of Affirmations
Should I Stay or Should I Go 4 Week Intensive
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